Bookstores and on-line resources sell forms that can be used to handle a divorce without attorneys. Forms may also be available at local law libraries.

Positives: Divorce kits or forms generally provide a check-list approach to divorce and child-related issues, so users are not left completely in the dark about their options. These may be fine for people with no children or substantial assets.

Negatives: Not all forms are equal; some can create more problems than they solve. When children and real estate or other major assets are involved, the forms may not be detailed enough to do what the couple is trying to accomplish. Check lists leave little room for creativity. If the husband and wife do not have equal information and equal power in the relationship, one person might not get his or her needs met.